me, a feminist: it’s important to support m/f ships where she is smarter and overall more badass than him yet he supports her and loves her for her capabilities and not despite them throwing toxic masculinity right out the window.
also me, a known gay: but wouldn’t it just be great if she had an equally intelligent and badass girlfriend instead?
Maybe the real problem is we don’t have enough F/F or healthy F/M relationships so we feel like we have to choose
